Overactive Friendster users who are teenage boys, mostly, have got it.

Today I asked my brother who's into hip-hop what the word swagger meant.

In his attempt to define, he used the words "cool" and "posture," and eventually ended with "mahirap i-explain eh..."

"...basta sa Tagalog, japorms."

Unfortunately, this is what typically comes to mind when I hear that word--

or this..

or worse, this:

That totally ruined it for me.

No no please don't grow up no!

The speakers were blasting Manu Chao all night and "Welcome to Tijuana" came on. While trying to sing in all the Spanish I could, I asked Kevin, my brother, "Baby, Tequila, Sex or Marijuana?"

"Sex," he said, without hesitation.

Es raro. Sigh.